CONSCIOUS LEADERSHIP COACHING
Your Growth, Our Journey.
Your Growth, Our Journey.
A deliberate break from business, once a month.
Two hours on one challenge, worked all the way down to where the pattern was formed.
You leave stronger, clearer, sometimes moved. From 190€.
A deliberate break from business, once a month.
Two hours on one challenge, worked all the way down to where the pattern was formed.
You leave stronger, clearer, sometimes moved. From 190€.
WHY LEADERS INVEST IN CONSCIOUS LEADERSHIP
Four ways this usually starts.
Four ways this usually starts.
This usually builds slowly. Each of them is the point where pushing through stops paying for itself. See which one sounds like your last six months.
DEEP COACHING – HOW A SESSION UNFOLDS
From the Resilient Leader to the Transformed Leader.
From the Resilient Leader to the Transformed Leader.
I work with positive impact leaders scaling their mission without burning out. Twenty 1:1 clients at a time, because depth doesn’t survive being spread thin. What follows is not usual talk-based coaching only.
The six steps below move through all five human capacities in a single two hour session.
01
Goal & Analysis
We start with what you actually want, which is rarely the thing you booked the session for. Then we find where you are stuck, and how long you have been stuck there. By the end of this part we both know what the two hours are for.

01
Goal & Analysis
We start with what you actually want, which is rarely the thing you booked the session for. Then we find where you are stuck, and how long you have been stuck there. By the end of this part we both know what the two hours are for.

01
Goal & Analysis
We start with what you actually want, which is rarely the thing you booked the session for. Then we find where you are stuck, and how long you have been stuck there. By the end of this part we both know what the two hours are for.

02
Nervous System
We start by reading where your system actually is today. Breath, tone, how fast you settle, where you still brace when nothing is happening. About ten minutes, and it tells us how hard the rest of the session can push. If you are also doing Nervous System Coaching, your training data from the past weeks comes in here too.

02
Nervous System
We start by reading where your system actually is today. Breath, tone, how fast you settle, where you still brace when nothing is happening. About ten minutes, and it tells us how hard the rest of the session can push. If you are also doing Nervous System Coaching, your training data from the past weeks comes in here too.

02
Nervous System
We start by reading where your system actually is today. Breath, tone, how fast you settle, where you still brace when nothing is happening. About ten minutes, and it tells us how hard the rest of the session can push. If you are also doing Nervous System Coaching, your training data from the past weeks comes in here too.

03
Mind
The pattern you are stuck in is not a thought you can argue with. It is older than that, and it runs whether or not you agree with it. So we work it where it lives, underneath the explanation, until it loosens. It does not vanish. It stops deciding for you.

03
Mind
The pattern you are stuck in is not a thought you can argue with. It is older than that, and it runs whether or not you agree with it. So we work it where it lives, underneath the explanation, until it loosens. It does not vanish. It stops deciding for you.

03
Mind
The pattern you are stuck in is not a thought you can argue with. It is older than that, and it runs whether or not you agree with it. So we work it where it lives, underneath the explanation, until it loosens. It does not vanish. It stops deciding for you.

04
Body
Whatever that pattern has been costing you, your body has been paying it. The jaw, the shoulders, the breath that never quite goes all the way down. We work with the tissue directly, with fascial maneuvers and stress release, so what has been held finally gets to leave. This is the part people do not expect and remember longest.

04
Body
Whatever that pattern has been costing you, your body has been paying it. The jaw, the shoulders, the breath that never quite goes all the way down. We work with the tissue directly, with fascial maneuvers and stress release, so what has been held finally gets to leave. This is the part people do not expect and remember longest.

04
Body
Whatever that pattern has been costing you, your body has been paying it. The jaw, the shoulders, the breath that never quite goes all the way down. We work with the tissue directly, with fascial maneuvers and stress release, so what has been held finally gets to leave. This is the part people do not expect and remember longest.

05
Being
Underneath the pattern there is something that was never damaged. Not a better version of you. The one that is not missing anything: dignity that needs no proving, trust that needs no evidence. We stay here long enough that it stops being a nice idea and becomes something you can feel while standing up.

05
Being
Underneath the pattern there is something that was never damaged. Not a better version of you. The one that is not missing anything: dignity that needs no proving, trust that needs no evidence. We stay here long enough that it stops being a nice idea and becomes something you can feel while standing up.

05
Being
Underneath the pattern there is something that was never damaged. Not a better version of you. The one that is not missing anything: dignity that needs no proving, trust that needs no evidence. We stay here long enough that it stops being a nice idea and becomes something you can feel while standing up.

06
Relationships
One real situation from your week. The conversation you are dreading, or the person you keep managing instead of meeting. We work it from where you now are, so the shift leaves the room with you. About ten minutes. It is what makes the other hundred hold.

06
Relationships
One real situation from your week. The conversation you are dreading, or the person you keep managing instead of meeting. We work it from where you now are, so the shift leaves the room with you. About ten minutes. It is what makes the other hundred hold.

06
Relationships
One real situation from your week. The conversation you are dreading, or the person you keep managing instead of meeting. We work it from where you now are, so the shift leaves the room with you. About ten minutes. It is what makes the other hundred hold.

Thirty minutes once a week adds up to the same two hours a month, on paper. But only two hours, unbroken, actually gets you underneath the pattern, to where it changes. That's what once-a-month, undivided attention buys you, with neurofeedback keeping your nervous system settled in between.
Thirty minutes once a week adds up to the same two hours a month, on paper. But only two hours, unbroken, actually gets you underneath the pattern, to where it changes. That's what once-a-month, undivided attention buys you, with neurofeedback keeping your nervous system settled in between.
NERVOUS SYSTEM COACHING – WHERE MOST LEADERS START
From the Reactive Leader to the Resilient Leader.
From the Reactive Leader to the Resilient Leader.
What makes this different from talk-based coaching is where it starts. A nervous system stuck on alert does not respond to insight, and it does not care how good your reasons are. So we do not start with the story. We start where the stress is made, and train the system itself. Real data instead of guesswork.
What makes this different from talk-based coaching is where it starts. A nervous system stuck on alert does not respond to insight, and it does not care how good your reasons are. So we do not start with the story. We start where the stress is made, and train the system itself. Real data instead of guesswork.

01 — Your baseline
Before anything else, I take a real reading of your nervous system, not a guess about how you're doing, an actual number for where it sits today. Everything after this gets measured against that.
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01 — Your baseline
Before anything else, I take a real reading of your nervous system, not a guess about how you're doing, an actual number for where it sits today. Everything after this gets measured against that.

02 — Neurofeedback Training
Between our two hours together, you keep training at home: watching a short film, playing a game, or listening to music while your own brainwaves quietly steer what happens on screen. Nothing gets added to your brain, it only reads what's already there, so the repetition keeps happening even when I'm not in the room.

03 — The measurable shift
A few months in, something shifts: what used to be a feeling starts showing up as a number. That's what the research behind this actually shows.

04 — The pattern holds
Eventually, regulation stops taking effort. Your nervous system quietly starts defaulting to calm, the way it once defaulted to bracing for whatever came next.
WHAT THE NEUROFEEDBACK RESEARCH SHOWS
WHAT THE NEUROFEEDBACK RESEARCH SHOWS
51%
51%
Mental Health
Of the participants who started in an abnormal range, this share moved into a healthy one.
59%
59%
Anxiety
Of those who started with an anxious score, this share moved into a healthy range.
33%
33%
Attention
This share showed a clinically significant gain in response consistency on a cognitive test.
51%
51%
Mental Health
Of the participants who started in an abnormal range, this share moved into a healthy one.
59%
59%
Anxiety
Of those who started with an anxious score, this share moved into a healthy range.
33%
33%
Attention
This share showed a clinically significant gain in response consistency on a cognitive test.
51%
51%
Mental Health
Of the participants who started in an abnormal range, this share moved into a healthy one.
59%
59%
Anxiety
Of those who started with an anxious score, this share moved into a healthy range.
33%
33%
Attention
This share showed a clinically significant gain in response consistency on a cognitive test.
From a study of 593 users of this neurofeedback system, training on average three months. No control group, and co-funded by the platform, so read it as a signal rather than as proof. Neurofeedback is one of five capacities here. See the research
From a study of 593 users of this neurofeedback system, training on average three months. No control group, and co-funded by the platform, so read it as a signal rather than as proof. Neurofeedback is one of five capacities here. See the research
THREE WAYS IN
THREE WAYS IN
Depth that fits your situation.
Depth that fits your situation.
Start with your own data, one real challenge, or four months with every capacity built and measured. The first needs no call before at all.
Start with your own data, one real challenge, or four months with every capacity built and measured. The first needs no call before at all.
The Nervous System Reading
See where you are.
/ 60 minutes, one time
The way in, with no call before it. You leave with your own data, not with an impression.
A brain scan of your nervous system as it is right now
Nico’s model: “The Anatomy of the Psyche”, walked through on your own example
A first piece of coaching on something concrete
Your read-out and the fitting next steps as a PDF afterwards
Option 8
This isn't the free Connection Call, it's a working session over your own data.
Best for:
FIRST STEP
Finding out what’s actually going on
The Nervous System Reading
See where you are.
/ 60 minutes, one time
The way in, with no call before it. You leave with your own data, not with an impression.
A brain scan of your nervous system as it is right now
Nico’s model: “The Anatomy of the Psyche”, walked through on your own example
A first piece of coaching on something concrete
Your read-out and the fitting next steps as a PDF afterwards
This isn't the free Connection Call, it's a working session over your own data.
Best for:
FIRST STEP
Finding out what’s actually going on
The Nervous System Reading
See where you are.
/ 60 minutes, one time
The way in, with no call before it. You leave with your own data, not with an impression.
A brain scan of your nervous system as it is right now
Nico’s model: “The Anatomy of the Psyche”, walked through on your own example
A first piece of coaching on something concrete
Your read-out and the fitting next steps as a PDF afterwards
This isn't the free Connection Call, it's a working session over your own data.
Best for:
FIRST STEP
Finding out what’s actually going on
Nervous System Coaching
The regulation shift. From Reactive to Resilient.
/ month
Your nervous system trains in your own week, in short blocks, without appointments.
One 60 min call per month to check how it’s going and to re-calibrate your protocol
Unlimited brain scans, so you can see what is actually changing
Set up with you, then it runs on its own
Invoiced to the company, month by month
Option 8
Works mainly the Nervous System capacity, with parts of Body and Mind.
Best for:
TRAINING AT HOME
NO FIXED APPOINTMENTS
Nervous System Coaching
The regulation shift. From Reactive to Resilient.
/ month
Your nervous system trains in your own week, in short blocks, without appointments.
One 60 min call per month to check how it’s going and to re-calibrate your protocol
Unlimited brain scans, so you can see what is actually changing
Set up with you, then it runs on its own
Invoiced to the company, month by month
Works mainly the Nervous System capacity, with parts of Body and Mind.
Best for:
TRAINING AT HOME
NO FIXED APPOINTMENTS
Nervous System Coaching
The regulation shift. From Reactive to Resilient.
/ month
Your nervous system trains in your own week, in short blocks, without appointments.
One 60 min call per month to check how it’s going and to re-calibrate your protocol
Unlimited brain scans, so you can see what is actually changing
Set up with you, then it runs on its own
Invoiced to the company, month by month
Works mainly the Nervous System capacity, with parts of Body and Mind.
Best for:
TRAINING AT HOME
NO FIXED APPOINTMENTS
Recommended
Deep Coaching
The transformation shift. From Resilient to Transformed.
/ month
Two hours at the root of it, once a month. The one thing that keeps coming back, worked down to where it was formed.
Two hours, one to one, through all six steps, on the one challenge that matters most right now
Working at the root, not at the symptom sitting on top of it
Online, or in person in Hamburg. In person preferred
Invoiced to the company, month by month
Option 8
All five capacities in every session. Over the months they get built one after the other, until the shift holds on its own.
Best for:
ONE REAL CHALLENGE
THE LONG GAME
Recommended
Deep Coaching
The transformation shift. From Resilient to Transformed.
/ month
Two hours at the root of it, once a month. The one thing that keeps coming back, worked down to where it was formed.
Two hours, one to one, through all six steps, on the one challenge that matters most right now
Working at the root, not at the symptom sitting on top of it
Online, or in person in Hamburg. In person preferred
Invoiced to the company, month by month
All five capacities in every session. Over the months they get built one after the other, until the shift holds on its own.
Best for:
ONE REAL CHALLENGE
THE LONG GAME
Recommended
Deep Coaching
The transformation shift. From Resilient to Transformed.
/ month
Two hours at the root of it, once a month. The one thing that keeps coming back, worked down to where it was formed.
Two hours, one to one, through all six steps, on the one challenge that matters most right now
Working at the root, not at the symptom sitting on top of it
Online, or in person in Hamburg. In person preferred
Invoiced to the company, month by month
All five capacities in every session. Over the months they get built one after the other, until the shift holds on its own.
Best for:
ONE REAL CHALLENGE
THE LONG GAME
Prefer to do this with others? The Retreat starts together in person, then continues online for four months, with HRV and neurobiology measurement. More under The Retreat.
Prefer to do this with others? The Retreat starts together in person, then continues online for four months, with HRV and neurobiology measurement. More under The Retreat.
Paying for this yourself, not through your organization? You can book privately, at an adjusted price. Go to the For You page.
Paying for this yourself, not through your organization? You can book privately, at an adjusted price. Go to the For You page.
Does it actually work?
REAL SHIFTS, REAL LEADERS
REAL SHIFTS, REAL LEADERS
“With Nico, you feel his professional expertise right away. He identifies the real issue quickly and draws you out of your comfort zone in a way that feels genuinely supportive. Every session is tailored, with effective techniques that integrate easily into daily life.”
Elisabet K.
Leader at Software Consultancy
“Nico creates an open, trusting atmosphere while bringing real structure to the conversation, so reflection turns into concrete action. What stands out most is how individualized his approach is, and his focus on impulses that actually hold up in daily life.”
Bennet D.
Project Leader at Strategic Consultancy
“From the very first session, Nico understood my new role as facility director with real depth and gave me tools that made an immediate difference. Within a short time, my day to day became more efficient and structured. That we also went deep into mindfulness and regeneration made it a complete package, and I'm genuinely grateful for it. Thank you, Nico.”
Tim W.
Leader in Health Care
“With Nico, you feel his professional expertise right away. He identifies the real issue quickly and draws you out of your comfort zone in a way that feels genuinely supportive. Every session is tailored, with effective techniques that integrate easily into daily life.”
Elisabet K.
Leader at Software Consultancy
“Nico creates an open, trusting atmosphere while bringing real structure to the conversation, so reflection turns into concrete action. What stands out most is how individualized his approach is, and his focus on impulses that actually hold up in daily life.”
Bennet D.
Project Leader at Strategic Consultancy
“From the very first session, Nico understood my new role as facility director with real depth and gave me tools that made an immediate difference. Within a short time, my day to day became more efficient and structured. That we also went deep into mindfulness and regeneration made it a complete package, and I'm genuinely grateful for it. Thank you, Nico.”
Tim W.
Leader in Health Care
“With Nico, you feel his professional expertise right away. He identifies the real issue quickly and draws you out of your comfort zone in a way that feels genuinely supportive. Every session is tailored, with effective techniques that integrate easily into daily life.”
Elisabet K.
Leader at Software Consultancy
“Nico creates an open, trusting atmosphere while bringing real structure to the conversation, so reflection turns into concrete action. What stands out most is how individualized his approach is, and his focus on impulses that actually hold up in daily life.”
Bennet D.
Project Leader at Strategic Consultancy
“From the very first session, Nico understood my new role as facility director with real depth and gave me tools that made an immediate difference. Within a short time, my day to day became more efficient and structured. That we also went deep into mindfulness and regeneration made it a complete package, and I'm genuinely grateful for it. Thank you, Nico.”
Tim W.
Leader in Health Care
“Nothing here asks you to become someone else. It clears what stands in front of the one already there: the basic trust, the love, the freedom and the dignity that were never earned, only covered.”
“Nothing here asks you to become someone else. It clears what stands in front of the one already there: the basic trust, the love, the freedom and the dignity that were never earned, only covered.”
— Nico
— Nico
Questions worth asking
STILL WONDERING?
Is this online or on-site?
Is this online or on-site?
Both work. The Nervous System Reading runs online, sixty minutes: a brain scan of your nervous system as it is right now, the anatomy of the psyche walked through on your own example, and a first piece of coaching on something concrete. Neuro Coaching also runs from home. I send you the neurofeedback device and we set it up together, then it runs without appointments. Deep Coaching can run online too, but I recommend doing it in person at my practice in Hamburg, where I read how your body actually releases tension far better face to face. I'll send you the address once we talk.
Is this therapy?
Is this therapy?
No, this is Leadership Coaching. I draw on methods with real roots in clinical psychology and contemplative traditions, because they work. The difference isn't the method, it's the starting point: clinical work is for people who can't get through their days without help. This is for people who already run their life well, but sense there's more in themselves still waiting to be explored, transformed, and embodied. If you're in acute crisis right now, tell me, and I'll point you to the right support instead.
Do I need to be spiritual?
Do I need to be spiritual?
No. This is grounded in neuroscience and psychology. No belief required, only curiosity about what you'll find. If you already have a contemplative or spiritual practice, there's real room for it here too, just applied, not just contemplated.
Why can't I just book a normal leadership coach, or ask HR?
Why can't I just book a normal leadership coach, or ask HR?
Of course, and a good leadership coach genuinely helps. Most leadership coaching is content-based, better frameworks, better skills, better at what you already do. This is context-based: it works on the capacity you lead from, so those skills hold under real pressure instead of collapsing, measured with QEEG and neurofeedback so you can see the shift, not just hope you feel it.
How much time does it take?
How much time does it take?
Two hours a month, plus a single small practice between sessions. Never three. Built for people who do not have spare hours.
What happens to my health data?
What happens to my health data?
Your QEEG and neurofeedback data lives on Myndlift, the platform used by neurofeedback clinics worldwide. It sits in your own account in the Myndlift app, and I see it as your coach through the Myndlift practitioner dashboard. Myndlift processes data in Israel, a jurisdiction the European Commission recognizes as offering adequate data protection under GDPR, and you can access, export, or request deletion at any time. Never sold, never shared beyond you and me without your consent. [3]
Can I expense this through my company?
Can I expense this through my company?
Sure, some clients do, others pay for this personally, the way they would invest in any high-leverage part of their development. If you want help framing the business case, we can talk about that on the call.
Why not just do neurofeedback on its own?
Why not just do neurofeedback on its own?
You can, and it costs around 350€ a month. What it will not do is tell you which pattern the data belongs to. Neurofeedback regulates your nervous system. It does not reach the need underneath the pattern that keeps activating it. Together they work: the session transforms the root, the training gives your system the stability to let the change settle, and the data shows whether it held. Across roughly thirteen weeks of consistent training, the neurofeedback research alone reports meaningful shifts in stress, anxiety and sustained attention. That is one of six capacities here, and it is why the Intensive runs four months and not one.
Questions worth asking
STILL WONDERING?
Is this online or on-site?
Is this online or on-site?
Both work. The Nervous System Reading runs online, sixty minutes: a brain scan of your nervous system as it is right now, the anatomy of the psyche walked through on your own example, and a first piece of coaching on something concrete. Neuro Coaching also runs from home. I send you the neurofeedback device and we set it up together, then it runs without appointments. Deep Coaching can run online too, but I recommend doing it in person at my practice in Hamburg, where I read how your body actually releases tension far better face to face. I'll send you the address once we talk.
Is this therapy?
Is this therapy?
No, this is Leadership Coaching. I draw on methods with real roots in clinical psychology and contemplative traditions, because they work. The difference isn't the method, it's the starting point: clinical work is for people who can't get through their days without help. This is for people who already run their life well, but sense there's more in themselves still waiting to be explored, transformed, and embodied. If you're in acute crisis right now, tell me, and I'll point you to the right support instead.
Do I need to be spiritual?
Do I need to be spiritual?
No. This is grounded in neuroscience and psychology. No belief required, only curiosity about what you'll find. If you already have a contemplative or spiritual practice, there's real room for it here too, just applied, not just contemplated.
Why can't I just book a normal leadership coach, or ask HR?
Why can't I just book a normal leadership coach, or ask HR?
Of course, and a good leadership coach genuinely helps. Most leadership coaching is content-based, better frameworks, better skills, better at what you already do. This is context-based: it works on the capacity you lead from, so those skills hold under real pressure instead of collapsing, measured with QEEG and neurofeedback so you can see the shift, not just hope you feel it.
How much time does it take?
How much time does it take?
Two hours a month, plus a single small practice between sessions. Never three. Built for people who do not have spare hours.
What happens to my health data?
What happens to my health data?
Your QEEG and neurofeedback data lives on Myndlift, the platform used by neurofeedback clinics worldwide. It sits in your own account in the Myndlift app, and I see it as your coach through the Myndlift practitioner dashboard. Myndlift processes data in Israel, a jurisdiction the European Commission recognizes as offering adequate data protection under GDPR, and you can access, export, or request deletion at any time. Never sold, never shared beyond you and me without your consent. [3]
Can I expense this through my company?
Can I expense this through my company?
Sure, some clients do, others pay for this personally, the way they would invest in any high-leverage part of their development. If you want help framing the business case, we can talk about that on the call.
Why not just do neurofeedback on its own?
Why not just do neurofeedback on its own?
You can, and it costs around 350€ a month. What it will not do is tell you which pattern the data belongs to. Neurofeedback regulates your nervous system. It does not reach the need underneath the pattern that keeps activating it. Together they work: the session transforms the root, the training gives your system the stability to let the change settle, and the data shows whether it held. Across roughly thirteen weeks of consistent training, the neurofeedback research alone reports meaningful shifts in stress, anxiety and sustained attention. That is one of six capacities here, and it is why the Intensive runs four months and not one.
Questions worth asking
STILL WONDERING?
Is this online or on-site?
Is this online or on-site?
Both work. The Nervous System Reading runs online, sixty minutes: a brain scan of your nervous system as it is right now, the anatomy of the psyche walked through on your own example, and a first piece of coaching on something concrete. Neuro Coaching also runs from home. I send you the neurofeedback device and we set it up together, then it runs without appointments. Deep Coaching can run online too, but I recommend doing it in person at my practice in Hamburg, where I read how your body actually releases tension far better face to face. I'll send you the address once we talk.
Is this therapy?
Is this therapy?
No, this is Leadership Coaching. I draw on methods with real roots in clinical psychology and contemplative traditions, because they work. The difference isn't the method, it's the starting point: clinical work is for people who can't get through their days without help. This is for people who already run their life well, but sense there's more in themselves still waiting to be explored, transformed, and embodied. If you're in acute crisis right now, tell me, and I'll point you to the right support instead.
Do I need to be spiritual?
Do I need to be spiritual?
No. This is grounded in neuroscience and psychology. No belief required, only curiosity about what you'll find. If you already have a contemplative or spiritual practice, there's real room for it here too, just applied, not just contemplated.
Why can't I just book a normal leadership coach, or ask HR?
Why can't I just book a normal leadership coach, or ask HR?
Of course, and a good leadership coach genuinely helps. Most leadership coaching is content-based, better frameworks, better skills, better at what you already do. This is context-based: it works on the capacity you lead from, so those skills hold under real pressure instead of collapsing, measured with QEEG and neurofeedback so you can see the shift, not just hope you feel it.
How much time does it take?
How much time does it take?
Two hours a month, plus a single small practice between sessions. Never three. Built for people who do not have spare hours.
What happens to my health data?
What happens to my health data?
Your QEEG and neurofeedback data lives on Myndlift, the platform used by neurofeedback clinics worldwide. It sits in your own account in the Myndlift app, and I see it as your coach through the Myndlift practitioner dashboard. Myndlift processes data in Israel, a jurisdiction the European Commission recognizes as offering adequate data protection under GDPR, and you can access, export, or request deletion at any time. Never sold, never shared beyond you and me without your consent. [3]
Can I expense this through my company?
Can I expense this through my company?
Sure, some clients do, others pay for this personally, the way they would invest in any high-leverage part of their development. If you want help framing the business case, we can talk about that on the call.
Why not just do neurofeedback on its own?
Why not just do neurofeedback on its own?
You can, and it costs around 350€ a month. What it will not do is tell you which pattern the data belongs to. Neurofeedback regulates your nervous system. It does not reach the need underneath the pattern that keeps activating it. Together they work: the session transforms the root, the training gives your system the stability to let the change settle, and the data shows whether it held. Across roughly thirteen weeks of consistent training, the neurofeedback research alone reports meaningful shifts in stress, anxiety and sustained attention. That is one of six capacities here, and it is why the Intensive runs four months and not one.



